| Premature ejaculation frequently becomes a matter of concern for men. Actually, one man out of three worries that they ejaculate too quickly. Of course, sometimes their fears are groundless, as many women avoid prolonged intercourses leaving them sore.
Even if a man is not excited about being able to go all night, he will probably need to last more three minutes! So, if you feel that you do climax too quickly, there are several quick fixes. Naturally, they all take some of your pleasure. You can try either wearing a condom, or applying commercial sprays to reduce the sensitivity. Many men also try masturbating before going on a hot date. Having ejaculated once in a day, it takes more time to come another time.
However, there are other ways for more pleasant intimate get. New astonishing men's expanded orgasms can be enjoyed if you learn to control your orgasms.
Man expanded orgasm means the ability of a man to have two or more orgasms without a rest period in between, and to maintain an hard-on between orgasms.
The trick lies in the ability to orgasm without actually ejaculating. Studies have shown that it is possible to have a full orgasm, accompanied with palpitation, muscle contractions and the sensation of ejaculatory release, without an genuine ejaculation. This phenomenon has been known to many eastern cultures for hundreds of years, as evidenced by tantric literature.
There are some methods by which men can become multi-orgasmic. The simpliest method is known as a Finger Draw. This technique uses three curved fingers to pressure one spot on the perineum at the point of no-return. Locate the pressure point at mid perineum. Pressure should be applied to the perineum with three slightly curved fingers as soon as you feel ejaculation is imminent. This technique should be first practised during masturbation because it's difficult to find the right spot. When you find the spot, don't expect a miracle to happen outright. This takes time and patience. But it is still worth the trouble.
Some men train themselves to have orgasm without ejaulation by pulling back at the last possible second before ejaculation. Practice this while masturbating. Continue stimulation to the point of imminent orgasm. Then you should stop and not resume stimulation until the decline of your arousal level. With regular practice, you should be able to get the contractions of orgasmic release without ejaculating.
Another technique requires strong pelvic muscles which can be achieved with regular kegel exercises. When you feel ejaculation is imminent, stop thrusting the penis. Pull back to around one inch of penetration without full withdrawal. Flex the pelvic muscle and hold to a count of nine. Alternately, turn the pelvic muscle nine times rapidly instead of holding the count. Resume thrusting shallowly and repeat as often as necessary until you have a non ejaculatory orgasm.
Try each of these techniques to find the one that suits you best, and remember that the best thing you can do during sex is have fun and love what you're doing! |
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